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Five fuchsias with magical pals – In a Bottle on Monday

I’ve written many times about how much flowers, gardening and the great outdoors help my health and wellbeing – coupled with mindfulness and yoga help me every day.  I think I’d be in a much tougher place without all these things.  That and my ace family and friends.  Not long after I started my blog, nearly four years ago, I came across a gardening blog called Rambling in the Garden (www.ramblinginthegarden.wordpress.com), run by a lovely lady called Cathy.  There was a link up every Monday involving picking flowers and plants from your garden (or locality) and placing them in in a vase – it was fascinating to see what she had grown in her garden, and what the other gardening bloggers around the world were growing. Today the meme has it’s fifth birthday.

I thought I need to get involved, as one of the reasons, I’d started the blog was to keep track of what is growing in the garden and when it flowers.

Here’s my first link up:

I learn so much from being involved in this meme – so much about gardening, what to plant and what not to plant, flower arranging and how to take ‘macro’ photography shots.   But more than that Cathy has always written lovely supportive and caring comments on my posts, always has something constructive to say – and above all has always been kind.  One day, I hope to meet Cathy face to face – probably when RHS Bridgewater opens – as I know she’d want to look around.

Keep on doing what your doing Cathy – it’s magical and wonderful.

Cathy says she had no idea what she’d started, but I know for sure it has a positive impact on so many people 🙂 xx

Gardeners join in from all around the world – On dark days in the middle of Winter, seeing the bright blooms from around the world have lifted my mood.   They’ve helped me when I’ve been unwell too as it’s encouraged me to get out and take photos.  It’s helped me to write better too – to find my voice.  So thank you to every IAVOM blogger who’s picked and taken photos over the years – and an extra special thank you to everyone who’s ever commented on my vases.  I’ve been rubbish at replying but I’ve read every comment.  I rarely manage to post on a Monday either – mainly because it’s dark/wet in Manchester and life is full on. But, Cathy says that doesn’t matter… it’s the joining in that counts.

And sometimes pals in your phone/internet can help you more than they realise, help you find a way through, find a new perspective…

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Today is the fifth birthday of ‘In a Vase on Monday’ hosted by wonderful Cathy.  Here’s what she’s picked and written about – not a vase and some dried flowers – but much more than that it’s about kindness, friendship, help and support – Thank you, everyone 🙂

For this week’s contribution to IAVOM, Cathy suggested NOT using a Vase…. have a look 🙂

If you want to join in – have a go, it’s not massively complex – some people just post one photo and minimal words, others weave the photos into stories – others pick plants from holidays and trips. It’s a good way to see how your garden or locality changes, month to month and year to year – and you never know you might find a new pal or two on the internet.

five fuchsias in five bottles in a wicker basket with a Veronica Dearly quote.

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Spread kindness like confetti – International Kindness Day 

Ask yourself: Have you been kind today? Make kindness your daily modus operandi and change your world. Annie Lennox – singer 

If you’ve been anywhere near the Internet, or the news, today you can’t possibly have missed that it’s International Kindness Day.  I don’t know about you but I try to be kind to people, ‘stand in their shoes’, ‘treat people as you’d like to be treated yourself’… I don’t always get kindness back, but hey that’s their problem NOT mine.  But, what I do know is being kind, helps me be a better person.  It also helps when the world around us looks dark, whether it’s Trump, Brexit or people breaking laws.

13 November 2017 – Spread kindness like confetti

One of the best things I found today was the 2017 Kindness Advent Calendar from Helen at Make Today Make Today Happy. Have a look!

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