Happy 1st Birthday – views from my garden bench

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Time moves in one direction, memory in another

William Gibson (novelist) b 1947

I won’t ever forget 2015 – the most physically and mentally demanding year of my life – it all changed in late April when my friend died.  I have so many good memories from our adventures together over 25 years – we remained friends to the end.  I’m glad he and my Chap were good pals too.

All that happened last year stretched my resilence to its limit, but I’ve come through the other side.  It’s reminded me to stick to my principles, take care of myself and that there’s always a way forward, even if it’s tiny steps.   Counselling, mindfulness, tai chi, yoga, and walking in the great outdoors, espccially time in my garden, have all helped me top up my resilence.   My Chap, my family, and my friends all helped too. It’s a long and complicated journey to recovery but I’ll get there.

I started my blog a year ago today – here’s my first post  – much of what I said I’d write about is still just as relevant now:

  • where we visit – I love history as well as time in the garden
  • what’s been happening in our lives
  • cooking and crafting too
  • my thoughts and dreams for the future
  • many pictures of the garden, plants, flowers and the veg plot.
  • And maybe, just maybe, some campervan adventures…(well that didn’t happen – the campervan went on its way in July 2015)

William Ford Gibson coined the team ‘cyberspace’ in 1984 and wrote about the principles that govern how something like the world wide web might operate.   Tim Burners Lee ‘invented’ the internet in 1989 (at CERN).  Cyberspace has given me so much over the years, I’ve worked with academics, since the early 1990s so I was an ‘early adopter’ of email and the www – I’m fortunate.  Most of all the web has given me ways to stay in touch with my friends and make new ones – and I met my Chap on an internet dating site five years ago.

Alot of the time last year, I’ve really struggled to write, which is a bit of an issue when I write for a living.  But my blog has helped as I can write about things I love.   I’ve found a lovely, friendly and helpful blogging community too – especially all the gardening bloggers.   I’m still an amateur gardener compared to most of them but that doesn’t matter.

I’ve joined a few topics which have helped me in the dark times:

  • In a Vase on a Monday

I’ve really enjoyed contributing to ‘In a Vase on Monday’ hosted by Cathy from ‘Rambling in the Garden‘ which involves picking flowers and plants from your garden or the local area and putting them in a vase.   Sounds simple doesn’t it? It is – so do join in.

I love looking at everyones vases, from across the world.  It’s given me so many ideas what to plant in my garden too. The flowers and vases have lifted my spirits in the dark times.
Most of all, everyone is so lovely, friendly and supportive.  I’m going to try to comment more this year on people’s vases.  I’ve appreciated every single comment on my vases, and I hope my vases and flowers have lifted someones mood too.

in a vase in monday

In a vase on Monday

See more of my Vases – 2015

  • #100happydays

The #100happydays challenge has helped me look for positive things every day, even when I’m having an exhausting day. My favourite part of the 100happydays challenge was writing about Lisbon – a wonderful city which I know we’ll visit again.

lisbon guide (6/100), fish stew (7/100), tram (8/100), wine at the castle (9/100) #100happydays

lisbon guide (6/100), fish stew (7/100), tram (8/100), wine at the castle (9/100) #100happydays

Castle de Pena (10/100), don't panic (11/100), funicular railway (12/100), bed rest (13/100)

Castle de Pena (10/100), don’t panic (11/100), funicular railway (12/100), bed rest (13/100) #100happydays

I’m a bit stuck with my updates from December for #100happydays  at the moment – as 7th December was a very, very tough day but I got through it.  And frankly, I was glad to see the back of 2015.   You can catch up with more of my #100happydays photos here

Life IS better in the Garden
My garden continues to be my solace.  I know it, my pals and family, but most of all my wonderful Chap will help me get to where I want to be.

yoda in the snow and plaque Life's better in the Garden - copyright R Jones 2016

yoda in the snow – Life IS better in the Garden taken 17 January 2016

I think yoda will be making a few more apprearances in 2016 too…

Happy 1st Birthday Cottonopolis Women’s Institute – January 2015

I’m a proud member; I’ve tried so many new things this year, met lots of new pals and had fun too.    I’m going to write more about my WI adventures in 2016 too.  If you’re local join us… if not have a look for a local group.  There are Men’s Sheds too.

#100happydays for 2016 from Coed-y-brenin mountain bike centre

#100happydays for 2016 from Coed-y-brenin mountain bike centre

Blogging in 2016… Carry on carrying on

There’s alot of changes ahead at work but I’m going to try to look for opportunities, be positive and try to make a difference – and give everything including my blog, my best efforts – as I continue my recovery.  In 2016 my blog will cover:

  • where we visit – I love history as well as gardening
  • what’s been happening in our lives – we’ve got a holiday planned in Cornwall in May
  • more cooking and ‘crap’ crafting too.
  • my thoughts and dreams for the future – and to be braver!
  • more  pictures of the garden, plants, flowers and the veg plot
  • yoda
  • This year I promise to write a bit more often, improve my photography skills, answer ALL my blog comments but most of all ‘Have fun blogging

Thank you to everyone who’s read or commented on my blog – I appreciate it more than I can say = I’m still surprised where you all come from.

I hope you’ll all tag along with me – Life’s an adventure – Live it

And I’ll be ‘seizing the day’ this year for definite, once I can find some more energy…

Offically Spring is around the corner (even though the daffodils and crocuses are already flowering)

Love

Bec xx

 

27 Comments

    • 14/02/2016 / 10:15 pm

      Thank you very much Judy – I hope so too. Hope you have a great year too. Love bec x

  1. 13/02/2016 / 4:18 pm

    And the very same from me …..Sue

    • 14/02/2016 / 11:00 pm

      Thank you very much sue – hope you have a good 2016 & everything grows where it should 🙂 love bec xx

    • 14/02/2016 / 9:12 am

      Thank you very much Eliza xx I don’t know where the year has gone x

      • 14/02/2016 / 4:24 pm

        🙂 Time flies when you are having fun. 😉

        • 14/02/2016 / 10:17 pm

          Ha – time certainly flies when I’m spending time in the garden 🙂

          • 14/02/2016 / 11:26 pm

            I know just what you mean!

  2. 14/02/2016 / 10:49 am

    Love your photos and the flowers in your garden. I can’t wait to move into a bigger garden! Oh and happy blog anniversary too 🙂 x

    • 14/02/2016 / 11:06 pm

      Thank you very much – I spend such a lot of my time in the garden (or looking through the window at it in the winter 🙂 ) My garden is mini but I’ve rammed a lot in it 🙂 have fun in your new garden love bec xx

  3. Lisa@IntoTheGlade
    14/02/2016 / 11:36 am

    Happy blog birthday Bec, I hope 2016 turns out to be your best year ever!!! With love and very best wishes xxxx

    • 14/02/2016 / 12:17 pm

      Thanks lisa – I hope 2016 is good too. Much love to you too xx

  4. Stephanie
    14/02/2016 / 2:04 pm

    Happy blogiversary! X

    • 14/02/2016 / 11:01 pm

      Thank you very much 🙂

  5. 14/02/2016 / 5:12 pm

    Happy blogiversary.
    I’m glad that your blog is helping you with positivity, long may it continue!

    • 14/02/2016 / 8:18 pm

      thank you very much – Yes I hope so too – 2016 is going well so far 🙂

  6. 14/02/2016 / 7:18 pm

    Happy blogging birthday!

    • 14/02/2016 / 10:13 pm

      Thank you very much – I can’t believe it’s been a year – hoping to blog a bit more in 2016 🙂 and a lot more about our outdoors adventures 🙂 love bec xx

  7. 14/02/2016 / 9:12 pm

    Happy blog birthday, it’s always so great reaching another milestone! Keep up the good work 🙂

    • 14/02/2016 / 10:02 pm

      Thank you very much Beckie – I’ll do my best. I’m hoping to blog ABIT more often this year than last year 🙂

  8. 14/02/2016 / 10:17 pm

    Happy blog birthday! here is to many more xx

    • 14/02/2016 / 11:03 pm

      Thank you very much Nafisah 🙂 I hope so too. Love bec xx

    • 17/02/2016 / 9:33 pm

      Thank you donna – I can’t believe it’s been a year – it seems eons ago… Such a lot has happened. I so enjoy reading everyone’s blogs about flowers 🙂

  9. 16/02/2016 / 10:05 pm

    Just nipped back to this from your vase post. Well done for sticking at everything this year, tough though it has been at times. You have taken so many positive steps and should be proud of yourself. And a year of blogging too! 🙂

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