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To Dwell is to Garden – Martin Heidegger, (1889-1976) German philosopher
Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better. Albert Einstein (1879-1955), Physicist and Nobel Prize winner for General Theory of Relativity.
With mindfulness, you can establish yourself in the present in order to touch the wonders of life that are available in that moment – Nhat Hanh (1926 – he’s 91!), Buddhist Monk
For me, Gardening is mindful, being in the moment. It doesn’t have to be me ‘doing’ things, it’s about the scents, the rustle of leaves, the birds, the hum of lawn mowers in the distance. For me, when I’m in the garden, I’m in the moment – I find watering, deadheading and weeding relaxing – and planting too. For me, it’s about peace and recharging.
About my garden
It’s small, it’s rubbly soil and north facing; the neighbours have huge conifers, which make it even shadier at the end of the garden.
I love it – our small, sanctuary from the hustle and bustle of the world
I’m content in the garden.

Before I bought my house – Summer 2009
In high summer 2016… some of the conifers on the right have gone now – but those on the left are even bigger 🙁

our garden in high summer 2016 – I need a new photo – as half of the conifers on the right have gone.
My garden is a work in progress – like me. I’m 51 – I definitely feel I’m in a new chapter with My Chap (my new husband) holding my hand, metaphorically too. To be fair, he does all the digging and heavy work as I have osteoarthritis. It’s a team effort in the garden.
and there’s always time to eat and relax.

Many pots planted (and watered), and always Yoda – any season… Yoda (and Star Wars have appeared many times on this blog).

My favourite flower – lavender
I love lavender too – it figured very heavily at our wedding in September 2017 (it was our ‘confetti’ too) I have about 20 different plants around the front garden which gets sun all day.

Lavender and a cabbage white butterfly
Many crocuses and violas too. Always something for the birds too.

It’s not all purple flowers though – there’s lots of colour around the garden. Orange and yellow life my mood in Spring. I love tulips too.

Flowers always make people better, happier and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. Luther Burbank, American Botanist
Meanwhile, you’ll find me in the garden, drinking Earl Grey or a Pimms… you’re welcome to join us if you’re in the area 😉

What do you do that’s mindful?
Originally, I wrote about what my garden means for me for the April competition at Cottonopolis Women’s Institute. We were asked to suggest our mindful activities, there was a vast range including knitting/crochet, sewing, baking, art or drawing, listening to music, and a few people like me loved walking or being in the great outdoors.
Our speaker in April was Deb Connor – an all-round star who led some mindfulness exercises and stretches. She’s a trained mindfulness teacher, an acupuncturist and is a vegan too.
I’ve been doing mindfulness for a couple of years now – which combined with over 10 years of yoga has really helped my mental wellbeing. I’ll write about this another time.
Women’s Institute – Cottonopolis WI, Ancoats, Manchester
We have so much fun at WI meetings, in June we made beauty products from lavender, peppermint and coffee skin scrubs.
If you’re local come along…
Let me know in the comments what you do that’s mindful? Do you have a garden? What does it mean to you?
Carpe Diem
love Bec xxx
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12 Comments
lovelyandgrateful
07/06/2018 at 7:45 pmYour garden is beautiful, and I love Yoda! ☺ Couldn’t agree more with this, my garden is a little sanctuary where I can gather my thoughts, escape my stresses and just immerse myself in nature.
Bec - views from my garden bench
08/06/2018 at 4:19 pmThank you:-) it’s a work in progress didn’t do much in 2017 as we had a wedding to plan but got plans for this year:-)
Alice
07/06/2018 at 9:27 pmWhat a beautiful garden. It looks absolutely lovely. You’ve put in alot of work since you bought the house! I would like more flowers in my garden, there’s alot of bushes! Cottonopolis WI sounds really interesting too. I’ll have to look it up!
Andra
07/06/2018 at 10:14 pmYour garden looks lovely 😊 I spotted some lavender, which I absolutely love!
Bec - views from my garden bench
08/06/2018 at 4:22 pmThank you:-) lots of lavender especially in our front garden – it’s gearing up to flower at the moment.
Ali
07/06/2018 at 11:10 pmYou have made such a difference! Your garden looks like a beautiful sanctuary.
Bec - views from my garden bench
08/06/2018 at 4:11 pmThank you 🙂 it’s a work in progress. I thought of you and your garden. I’m going to write more about mindfulness and wellbeing on my blog.
Eliza Waters
08/06/2018 at 2:33 amYou’ve made a wonderful and welcoming garden, Bec!
Bec - views from my garden bench
08/06/2018 at 4:07 pmThank you – definitely a work in progress 🙂
Rosie
17/01/2019 at 4:11 amWhat a lovely garden! Congratulations!
Bec - views from my garden bench
17/01/2019 at 10:22 amthank you – it’s a work in progress as garden’s always are. It’s got it’s winter frost blanket on today 🙂
Rachael Stray | https://rachaelstray.com/
07/02/2019 at 7:26 pmI love lavender too.