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“Stay afraid, but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it, and eventually the confidence will follow”. Carrie Fisher (1956-2016).
This week in Manchester we had rain. Rain! It filled my water butts up and soaked the garden. We didn’t have any rain in my part of Manchester for the whole of April. We had to water the garden! In these strange times, the weather has been strange too.
I couldn’t let this important day pass without saying ‘May the fourth be with you’ – or have a good Star Wars day. The memes are everywhere, the new generations getting to know this space western/opera in all its glory is one of the positives in these tough times. There’s many aspects to these stories that help me reflect on my life and what to do next. Love yoda, R2D2, Princess Leia/General Organa and the rest.

R2D2 money box tin and pink Thierry azalea flower
Star wars and me
I first watched Star Wars in 1977 when I was 11 – General Leia Organa was the first female protagonist I saw in a film, who was in charge, led from the front and kept going! (even in a bronze bikini). I loved Star Wars from the first moment I saw it. I think I watched it two or three times that summer and yes, we had the lightsabre toys later (Christmas?) and they were wrecked from playing out every big scene. We waited in anticipation for the sequals, by the time they arrived it was ‘an event’. My wonderful Uncle Fred, took my brother and I to see the films at the Odeon Leicester Square, London with full surround sound.
I’ve written about star wars and yoda a few times on my blog. Have a look:

Carrie Fisher
Carrie Fisher was gifted actress, writer, mental health champaigner and dog lover. She’s missed. It was good to see her back in the last trilogy which I enjoyed, although I think there were wasted opportunities with the plots especially in The Rise of Skywalker.
I read her books Postcards from the Edge (1987) and Surrender the Pink, (1990) when they were published. I really must read re-read them, along with The Princess Diarist (2016) about her time on the Star Wars sets.
Have you read them?
In A Vase on Monday – R2D2, Yoda and Azalea
This week I am joining Cathy from Rambling in the Garden for In a Vase on Monday – she has a gorgeous collection of purple flowers, accompanied by a Caithness Glass vase. This link-up is very simple, pick flowers or plants from your garden or locality and put them in ‘vase’.
I joined this link-up ably run by Cathy not long after I started my blog over five years ago, as a way of helping me document the growth around my garden, sometimes connecting to what has been happening in my life.
I’ve been thinking about picking and putting this azalea in a vase for a couple of weeks. It was electric pink when it first flowered – it was a huge pop of colour in the ‘afternoon’ shady part of my garden. The colour was so bright; it was difficult to get any definition on the flowers when I shot close up. It’s called Thierry, a dwarf plant, that’s about four years old and lives in a pot. It needs ericaceous (acid) soil and definitely wouldn’t cope with the rubble-filled soil we have in the garden.

Sci-fi
For me, during the lockdown, I am struggling with any TV or films that are too gritty or complex stories. so I’ve been deep in science fiction or fantasy. So far in lockdown, we have watched or are watching:
- Tales from the Loop (2019) – inter-connected stories about the people who live above the mysterious Loop scientific base investigating the Universe and time. The acting and cinematography are stunning.
- Firefly – a space western from 2003 (Produced and some episodes. My pal recommended it because I loved The Mandalorian when I watched it earlier in the year (and my love of Star Wars)
- Watching the Marvel films in order – we are up to Captain America: The Winter Soldier. When we started this in January, I’d only seen a couple of Iron Man films and Guardians of the Galaxy. I loved the Captain Marvel film which is what set me off on watching them in the correct order.
I am contemplating starting at the beginning of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. I loved it back in the day and I hope it stands up just as well now. Another strong female character! Cheerleaders saving the world 😉 Has anyone watched it recently? Will I be disappointed? P.S. I thoroughly enjoyed Heroes at the time too.
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The quote at the beginning – I’ve been planning something for a while, I just need to be brave and do it.
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Are you a Star Wars fan? Or Marvel? Have you been watching Sci-Fi? Any recommendations
Or have you been gardening? What are you enjoying at the moment?
Let me know in the comments
I hope you’re having as good a week, as you can in lockdown, in these strange times,
Carpe Diem
Love Bec xx
Remembering Carrie Fisher – died far too soon.
Remembering Steve – who had a soft spot for Star Wars and the tribulations of Chewie – died far too soon






16 Comments
Mellissa Williams
06/05/2020 at 9:41 pmThe azalea is beautiful and such a lovely colour. I love the Star Wars movies, I’ve been rewatching them recently.
beth
06/05/2020 at 11:00 pmI’m slightly embarrassed to say I have never watched a Star Wars movie. Might need to rectify this during lockdown
whatthedadsaid
07/05/2020 at 10:41 amIm a star wars fan and love the Yoda garden ornament, our May the 4th celebrations were alittle muted this year, im glad you watch firefly, i enjoyed it back then aswellas the film Serentiy, it was such a shame it got cut short,
StressedMum (@stressedmum01)
07/05/2020 at 11:06 amBeautiful pictures, I seem to have been watching a few Star Wars films lately as my husband is rewatching them all
rhianwestbury
07/05/2020 at 2:19 pmI do like Star Wars, although not nearly as much as my fiance does, I do still need to watch the mandalorin though x
MELANIE EDJOURIAN
07/05/2020 at 2:24 pmI have watched some Marvel films but that was pre lockdown. I’ve been watching House and Killing Eve recently, they’re really good.
forkwardthinkingfoodinista
07/05/2020 at 4:59 pmMy other half loves anything start wars related. He loves the films and some of the merch too xx
ChelseaMamma
07/05/2020 at 5:59 pmWe have a few star wars and game of thrones figures in the garden too – my husband is obsessed
Bec - views from my garden bench
07/05/2020 at 6:48 pmCool – dont tell anyone but ive never seen game of thrones.
Cathy
07/05/2020 at 6:22 pmWhat an interesting post, Bec – but definitely gardening here and no sci fi although I did watch the first Star Wars when it came out – was it really 1977? In my head I would have thought it was later than that. Gardening, keeping fit and enjoying the moment – and I have definitely sat and chilled more than I usually would. I love the colour of the azalea and I like how you have woven the Star Wars theme around it. – it has been a pleasure to have you joining us over the last few years and I remember some of the poignant early posts you shared and hope that IAVOM has helped you on your journey since then
Rowena corderoy
07/05/2020 at 8:12 pmMy boys love Star Wars we had loads of fun on Monday looking through all our old Star Wars pictures from when we went to Disney! I’ve never watched a film though!
michelle twin mum
07/05/2020 at 10:00 pmI havn’t watched any of the Star Wars films for many years, I think I should introduce the kids to them during this time. Mich x
simplysensationalfood
07/05/2020 at 11:50 pmI am not a fan of sci fi movies and much to my embarrassment I have never watch a Star Wars movie .
Bec - views from my garden bench
08/05/2020 at 7:59 pmYou’re not the only one 0 My husdand had only seen one star wars film – Star Wars: Episode I – The Phantom Menace (the first of the prequals) but he’s seen a few since he met me 🙂
Anosa Malanga
09/05/2020 at 8:59 pmI love the quote from Carrie Fisher, I have saved that for the future to remind me. I have to admit that I have never actually watched star wars, I am not a massive fan of sci-fi however I do plan on watching it one day as I feel I might be the only person who has not seen it
Angela Ricardo Bethea
11/05/2020 at 3:39 pmHuge Star Wars fan and totally love that Yoda item. It’s been a while since I last re-watched it.