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Mindfulness helps me focus on the ordinary, small things that are happening around me – I try to embrace and notice tiny things. I try to get outside every day for an hour whether it’s for a walk, to sit in the garden or a park. Often I try this mindful meditation in the garden. Also, most days I try to pick flowers from the garden, for us to enjoy inside. I pick flowers because it is often raining in Manchester.
Today, for my Vase I picked lavender – it’s my favourite scent and flower. It brings back so many memories when I smell the scent. I photographed it by our huge rosemary bush; the scent reminds me of my Dad, my friend Steve who were fabulous cooks – and roast lamb Sunday dinners too ;-). The scents got me thinking about ‘how’ I’m mindful in the garden, so I thought I’d write a little about what I do when I’m out in the garden, the park or waiting somewhere.
‘and into the forest I go to lose my mind and find my soul’ John Muir (1838-1914) Scottish/American explorer and an early advocate of saving Wilderness places in US.
Here’s a suggestion of how to be more mindful in the garden.
A way to be mindful in the garden:
- Go outside, leave your phone behind too.
- Listen to the wind, the birdsong – what can you hear? can you feel the wind?
- If it is dry (and you want to do this) – take your shoes (and socks off) and stand on the grass – feel the grass – is it tickly? feel the ground under your feet, feel yourself standing firmly on the ground.
- Or sit on a bench – again feel yourself sitting firmly, feel the wood/mental under your body, focus on how connected you are to the ground.
- Think about what is growing around you – notice what season it is, what can you hear that tell you the season?
- Look at the clouds, is the sky blue? Are there clouds, what shape are they?
Is the sky darker? Is rain coming or has it passed by? - Notice the surrounding plants, look carefully at the leaves, and flowers, look at the colours, and their variation
- can you see any insects or bees?
- what scent is there? Focus on the different scents.
- Let the thoughts drift in and out of your head, acknowledge them, and bring your thoughts back to the flowers, plants and noises of nature. Focus again on the
- Breathe evenly, focus on your breath, in and out,
- close your eyes and count your breath slowly and evenly. Can you visualise the surrounding scene?
- Be thankful for the plants and wildlife around you.
- Be thankful that you can experience all this today, in this moment, and this place.
- Open your eyes, move on and explore the next place you visit.
Let me know if you try this and how you get on… it takes a little practise to let the thoughts flow, let go and re-focus on what is around you. But, trust me, it’s worth it.
It’s possible to bring mindful attention to many things; placing plants in the soil, watering your flowers, deadheading, picking up leaves or weeding, etc. Just give it a go. Don’t get hung up on the word ‘meditation’; you need not be still to be mindful, nor do you need to chant or have a candle. Just give it a go.
I’ve written before about mindfulness a few times – have a look, lots of ideas and suggestions 😉 I’ll write more posts soon – as it has made such a difference to my life these last few years – and has helped me with my daily arthritis pain.
- My ‘Mindful’ Garden – I’m in the moment
- My mental health care kit – ideas for self-care
- 3 vases 3 goals in 2019

Lavender in my hand – the smell is heady
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In a Vase on Monday – lavender, sweetpea, campion, sweet william
I picked lavender for my ‘In a Vase on Monday’ I photographed it in my hand, as I often pick lavender stalks and bring some into the house – and plonk in an existing vase 🙂 I picked some more flowers to go with the lavender too. I picked sweetpeas, rose campion (it’s a vivid pink) and some Sweet William. It smells gorgeous 🙂 and it has reminded me to make sure I grow more sweet peas next year.
and now to find a vase from my large collection… 😉
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I’m joining Cathy from Rambling in the Garden – In a Vase on Monday – on a slow gravy boat to China She has a blue and white theme in a gravy boat – proving that ‘vases’ can be just about anything. I’m loving her dalhias, cornflowers and Echinops, there’s much more in the vase than this so have a look. For ‘In a Vase on Monday’ pick what’s growing around where you are, a garden, the countryside, where ever, it doesn’t have to be flowers either.
The In a Vase on Monday crew all around the world have been picking and presenting plants in Vases for four years now. It’s a fabulous expereince to dive into the photos on the blog, giving me ideas of plants to grow in my garden, lifts my mood in deepest winter and everyone is so friendly and helpful. Huge thanks as usual to Cathy for hosting it all 🙂
I haven’t joined in for a long time as life has been full on here (in a good way). I’d picked and photographed flowers, but hadn’t quite got around to writing about them – oops. I’ve got my eye on some flowers for next week already.

Looking carefully at these flowers helps my mindful meditation in the garden
I am with John Muir and Albert Einstein, time in nature helps me understand and find my soul. I guess I’ve been an advocate of ‘Forest bathing’ for a while 😉
‘Look deep into nature and you will understand everything better’ Albert Einstein
Try this mindful meditation in the garden to calm your mind. Have you got a favourite meditation or mantra? Does being in nature help you? Let me know in the comments.
Carpe Diem
love Bec xx xx xx
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23 Comments
Beautyqueen UK
16/08/2019 at 7:50 pmI love sitting outside in the rain under an umbrella with no phone and being on my own for just a few minutes, listening to the rain drop x
Bec - views from my garden bench
19/08/2019 at 10:45 amsounds lovely 🙂 I do this often too
Jenni
16/08/2019 at 9:10 pmI love sitting in the garden and listening to the birds and the natural rustling in the breeze. It is such a simple way to relax
rhianwestbury
17/08/2019 at 9:18 amI’m not a very outdoorsy person so sitting in the garden doesn’t relax me too much but it’s good to know what does relax you. And lavender is such a lovely scent, we use it in our diffuser at night x
Ryan
17/08/2019 at 9:26 amOne of the things I miss most about where I lived before I moved to the city was my garden. Sitting in the garden is such a peaceful thing to do. I can’t wait to move back to the countryside!
Naomi
17/08/2019 at 11:32 amBeautifully written and so true! The outdoors and nature are such great healers!
Bec - views from my garden bench
17/08/2019 at 3:03 pmThank you Naomi – I wanted to write what I do when I’m outside in the garden or outside – being mindful has made such a difference to me xx
Sarah Howe
19/08/2019 at 4:20 pmI love to do this when I have time! You do feel truly calm and in the moment! Life is so busy. X
Bec - views from my garden bench
19/08/2019 at 10:09 pmEven doing this for a minute or two will help- I know it’s tough when there’s so much going on.
Kara (@ChelseaMamma)
17/08/2019 at 4:56 pmI love being outside although our garden is more of a playground than somewhere to relax. I do have sweetpeas though, they are my favourite flower
Globalmouse (@globalmouse1)
17/08/2019 at 8:53 pmI really love being outside and all the different scents and sounds. I do need to be better at leaving my phone behind though.
m1ssingsleep
17/08/2019 at 11:34 pmWhat a lovely idea! I think following your suggestions you will really take your surroundings in and appreciate them! Plus being outdoors always makes me feel better somehow.
Angela Ricardo Bethea
18/08/2019 at 4:49 pmIt would be nice to sometimes go out and just enjoy the scenery and background noise you hear in the garden. Being surrounded by nature can be quite relaxing.
Elizabeth Williams
18/08/2019 at 6:16 pmI love being outdoors. I especially love relaxing outdoors appreciating the sounds and smells of nature. Brilliantly written posts with lots of tips on how to be mindful in the garden.
Jon | The Money Shed (@themoneyshed)
19/08/2019 at 3:48 pmWhat a great post. We’ve recently had a fence put around our garden so it’s more enclosed so this is something I would really like to start doing!
laura doev
19/08/2019 at 10:00 pmFab post, I really need to start finding ways to mediate and relax and I do love being outdoors. I need to give this a go.
rockabillyspoonie
19/08/2019 at 11:19 pmI love this post, one of the things I have been wanting to do with my garden is create a small area of calm and tranquillity for me to meditate and do yoga x
Miranda (Anosa)
20/08/2019 at 10:18 amI wouldn’t mind giving mindful meditation in my garden except for the many spiders that seem to have moved their giving me hypertension.
forkwardthinkingfoodinista
20/08/2019 at 11:01 amLiterally talking about this yesterday, as I want to begin meditation for sure. Need to take some time out to start this xx
Sabina Green
20/08/2019 at 11:25 amI saw something about doing this yesterday. It sounds totally blissful to me, I need to start!
Jenni
20/08/2019 at 10:53 pmI love the smell of lavender. We’ve planted some outside our living room window. It attracts the bees too.
Clare Minall
21/08/2019 at 8:27 amI always believe that we should remain humble and never forget to be thankful. It will hep us to reach our goal and be successful. Thank you for sahring this.
Cathy
24/08/2019 at 8:14 pmSuch a thoughtful post, Bec, I really enjoyed reading it, especially knowing how much mindfulness has helped you in the past. For many of us gardeners we are halfway there aready, I think! I have several quotations in the garden that I have written on slate, including this Albert Einstein one – I think you would approve of them all. Sorry to hear that your arthritis is such a pain, but pleased to know that things are generally good. My IAVOM post is always set to publish at 9.00am on the Monday so take care to link with the current week – this one has linked to the week before last so you may not get any regular IAVOMers finding it. Look forward to seeing you again soon!